Reflections by daughters Sylvia and Jackie

Spoken of in character and deed, the name Geneva means “GREAT!”

Geneva Crowell Washington was the firstborn child to Beulah and Tally Crowell on March 2, 1915, and was later joined by little sister Devora and brother James. Ham and pound cake were her favorite food and pink, her favorite color.

During her adolescent years, she lived with her grandmother in Logansport, Louisiana until she married John L. Washington on June 21, 1936. In 1938 they welcomed their first daughter and eight more children would soon follow (5 girls and 3 boys). She was a devoted wife and mother and taught us to give honor to Father and Mother first. She loved everybody, especially children, and was loved by all.

As her children, we have endless memories of her unconditional love:

Awakening every morning to the smell of breakfast, fresh-cooked dinners every evening, eating as a family (even though sometimes just buttermilk and cornbread); and grace we shared before fork or spoon was lifted. During winters, our castor oil line ups and Christmas with gifts under a fresh-cut tree. Love came in many forms!

She taught us to respect our elders, obey the elder siblings, protect and care for the younger siblings, give privacy, discipline, and politeness to all. Forgiveness, hugs, and make-ups for each of us.

Chores were shared by all—wash days with cloth pins and line hanging, ironing (non-electric), sewing, spring cleaning, waxing floors on knees, and cooking. Memorizing Bible verses and the Lord’s Prayer at bedtime. Oh, let us not forget our first bank account with a dime deposit whenever we got a quarter.

Mother was faithful in the word of God and what she believed. In her short life, she lived as a Christian and her wisdom was beyond her years. Matthew was her favorite book of the Bible; “What a Friend We Have In Jesus” her favorite song. She took us to Church, and when she could not go we walked.

Education was important to her, but she was our first and the best teacher. Everything she taught was biblically based and preparation for our survival in a world not yet known. She taught the work of human nature and to do a job right the first time. Her encouraging nature was a positive reinforcement and in a time of crisis, just remembering her patient spirit is still a comfort.

Come, children of the past and present. Come, children of future generations. This is your legacy! Reminisce, celebrate and share the memories of LOVE our mother shared and gave to us.

Let us cherish and treasure all we were taught so we can all hear her say,

“all that’s left of me is love, give me away as best you can.  If you need me, put your arms around someone and give them what you need to give me.  Let me live in your hearts always as in your minds always.”